Just got to know yesterday that a good friend of mine is actually married with 2 kids.. it came as a real SHOCK... for the 7 years that I have known him... he has always been carefree... seldom hear him talk about having a gf... thus totally did not expect him to be actually married, moreover to have 2 kids already...
I'm happy for him because it's good news to have a family... yet slighty pissed with him for hiding his marriage and birth of kids from us... 'us' meaning me and the rest of the group who hang out together...
I wondered what prompted him to finally reveal this secretive part of his life with me yesterday... but I remembered I felt like fainting during the conversation over lunch.... don't know if the fainting feel is due to the piece of news or from the grease in air at Sakae Sushi...
God... I hate having menses... it always make me bloated for more than a week... I feel as huge as a cow and just as attractive as a lizard now.... not to mention the pre-menstrual backaches that I have to endure... and I feel tired, hungry and grumpy all the time... sian!
Since I am already whining... might as well pour out my other grievances... my mother-in-law drives me crazy... not normal crazy... but real crazy kind of madness. Everytime I want to bring my father-in-law and her out for dinner, she is bound to have something wierd to say. I remembered during last year father's day or my father's-in-law birthday... she actually said why do we want to bring him out for dinner... "eat for what?" she asked... before saying my father-in-law is so greedy...???!!!
Earlier this year... when we wanted to bring them out for dinner to celebrate father's day... it's the same thing again... she declined to go for the dinner... and we ended up postponing the dinner...
You would think that she is the independent sort who doesn't need/ want our attention??...
Wrong!... cause she asked my husband to go all the way from Pasir Ris to Tanjong Pagar just to buy her Milo mix... char siew buns etc... Most recently, she also asked us to bring her out for dinner as she is free on Fridays and Saturdays...
So we did exactly that... we make time to bring them out for a nice dinner today... guess her response>>... she refused to join again! Her reasons: She didn't like the food that we intend to have... She may not be free this Sat or next Sat... My father-in-law is coughing etc...
Come on! We can always compromise on the food to have... but what's with the strange behaviour?
Others would have thought we are unfillial... seldom bring them out.
Poof......
See there is just so much pent up frustration in me... which probably explains the headaches every morning.
Anyway, we are going for the dinner with/ without her. Just don't phone me again to meet her for dinner.
On separate note... my 6th uncle and aunt are going for kidney transplant next week... my uncle (my mum's youngest brother) is donating his kidney to his wife who is suffering from kidney failure for the past 10 years.. I wish them well... hoping that they will both have smooth surgeries and speedy recovery. May God bless them.
Got to go change and accompany Melvin for his haircut now....
Wishing myself... all the best with the dinner!
